





EDITOR’S LETTER
NOVEMBER 2015
“I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought; and that gratitude is
happiness doubled by wonder.” G.K. Chesterton The Sunday after Halloween, as I was eating leftover candy and putting away
my sculls and ravens for more acceptable general “fall” decor, I heard it: a
Christmas commercial. In fact, it was for Hallmark’s 55 Days of Christmas.
This, coupled with the fact that Christmas decorations are already on sale
everywhere I go, goes to show that Thanksgiving is quickly losing ground as
an American institution, and I won’t sit idly by and watch it happen.
Each year, people claim there’s a “war on Christmas,” but this year, I want us to fight the
war on Thanksgiving.
While the true origins of Thanksgiving may not be widely known, the thought behind it
is indeed sincere. President Abraham Lincoln declared a “national Day of Thanksgiving
and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.” This was when it was
declared a federal and public holiday. However, earlier Americans were celebrating long
before that.
In 1777, while the Continental Congress was meeting in a temporary location in York,
Penn., due to the British occupation of our then-national capital at Philadelphia, a note
of thanks was issued. Samuel Adams (the person, not the beer) drafted the First National
Proclamation of Thanksgiving. Congress later adapted the final version, which, in part,
read
“…That it may please Him graciously to afford his Blessing on the Governments of
these States respectively, and prosper the public Council of the whole: To inspire our
Commanders, both by Land and Sea, and all under them, with that Wisdom and
Fortitude which may render them fit Instruments, under the Providence of Almighty
God, to secure for these United States, the greatest of all human Blessings, Independence
and Peace…”
Our first Thanksgiving wasn’t meant to imitate a festive coming together of the pilgrims
and Native Americans; it was to call upon a greater power while we were at war, trying
desperately to establish ourselves as an independent nation. If there is a holiday worth
celebrating in America, Thanksgiving is worth it. So, hold off on your Christmas trees
and carols and let the turkey have his time.
I hope you’ll join my War For Thanksgiving by expressing gratitude toward family,
friends, and others who have helped you this year. I’ll go first: while we will continue
giving thanks for all of our readers, community friends and people who are able to
keep our magazines running, we’re also expressing
sincere gratitude for allowing us, artists, writers,
photographers & designers, to practice our crafts
and remain independent. Without you, we simply
wouldn’t have a job. So, thank you, thank you, thank
you.
Best,
Meg McElhaney
Editor-in-Chi


Breakfast with Santa
HARRAH METHODIST CHURCH HOSTS EVENT
On Saturday, December 12 from 8 - 10 a.m. the
Harrah Methodist Church is hosting a free
community event. Breakfast with Santa will
include crafts, free photos with Santa and
other family friendly activities. This event is
open to the public as a way to ring in the Christmas season.
Harrah United Methodist Church is located at 2224 Harrison
Ave, Harrah, OK 73045. For more information call the
church at 405-454-3159.
Community Submission
To submit a community event or news story contact the editor
at meg@highfivemedia.com

Historical Theatre Reopens
THE STATE THEATRE IS OPEN TO THE PUBLIC
A historical gem in Harrah recently opened to
the public. The STATE Theater opened its
doors and currently hosts concerts, musicals,
movies, plays and events, adding a certain
cultural flair to the Harrah community.
The STATE Theater was first opened prior to 1941 and
stayed open until 1950, when it closed. The remodeling
and reopening of the venue added more opportunities for
concerts and events for locals. The theatre, located at 1961
Church Avenue, boasts an “intimate venue” feel. With seating
enough to hold 200 people, the theatre hosted events
in November like an Open Mic Night, The Princess Bride
movie viewing and a session by the Native American Ghost
Society detailing their investigations. The holiday season is
sure to bring with it many opportunities for fun events. For
a list of upcoming events call 405-309-6166 or visit their
website at thestateok.com.
Written by Katy Fabrie

Giving Tuesday
The hustle and bustle of the holiday season often
leads to an overload of consumerism and stress.
It seems you can’t turn around without the urge
to buy this and purchase that. Though it’s all well
and good to buy fun gifts for your loved ones, the
meaning behind the holiday season sometimes gets pushed
aside with the Black Friday and Cyber Monday madness.
Giving Tuesday (#GivingTuesday), Dec. 1, 2015, is wholly dedicated
to taking time to think of others who truly need help.
The program is a global day centering around giving generously
to those who need it the most. The local Edmond, Oklahoma
City, Choctaw and Harrah communities are getting involved,
too. All it takes is a quick search on givingtuesday.org to locate
a charity that’s participating. A few nonprofits taking part are
HOPE Center of Edmond, Orphan Relief Effort Inc., Regional
Food Bank of Oklahoma, Oklahoma Institute for Child Advocacy
and the Foundation for Oklahoma City Public Schools. So
on Giving Tuesday, take the time to give back to your local community—
you’ll be happy you did.
Written by Katy Fabrie

CHS Softball Takes State
The Lady Yellowjackets have something to cheer about going
into the holiday season. The fastpitch softball team claimed
the Class 6A softball state championship title, the second
fastpitch state championship
for Choctaw
since the 90’s. Choctaw defeated
Sand Springs at the ASA Hall of
Fame Stadium in a tight 4-3 victory.
Choctaw sophomore standout
pitcher, Chenise Delce, worked
hard to hold Sand Springs at bay
and thanked her teammates after
the game for their hard work in
supporting her pitching efforts.
Coach Mudgett and the crew
brought home to Choctaw loads of
memories and a very beloved state
title trophy.
Written by Katy Fabrie

It’s the best of times, it’s the worst of times, it’s holiday baking. We know the struggles of holiday cooking, and we’re here
to help you out! Whatever your holiday traditions are—conventional or unconventional—we have the perfect options
to make your holiday eating more enjoyable and less of a hassle. - Kennedy McAlister
Kitchen No. 324 (Downtown OKC)
Kitchen 324’s savory Chicken Pot Pie features all the holiday
goodness with a twist—a fried chicken leg in the middle
of it! Their dessert pies are freshly made in-house every
morning: coconut crème, pecan, and this fall you can enjoy
a pumpkin pie. Perfect for the family who goes out to eat for
the holidays.
Sherri’s Pies (704 SW 59th St., OKC)
Perfect for the hostess who has lots of food to make,
Sherri’s pink-lit interior matches the fun-loving, homey
style of their pies. Order in advance one of their
special holiday pies: pumpkin and caramel apple pecan.
Arbuckle Mountain Original Fried Pies (3721 N.W. 50th St., OKC)
The famous I-35 Davis, OK stop brings their fried goodies to Oklahoma City. It’s perfect
for the family who likes untraditional holiday desserts—you can order a variety of their
fried pies for your family dinner. Their special holiday pies include raisin, apple raisin
pecan, pumpkin and sweet potato.
That Pie Place (Food Truck)
A new food truck in the OKC Metro area, That Pie Place not only provides delicious
pies; it creates a fun outing for your family! Follow them on Twitter or Instagram (@
ThatPiePlaceOK) to find where they are from day to day, or visit their website (thatpieplaceok.
com) to find out how you can order whole pies.
Pie Junkie (1711 NW 16th St., OKC)
Featured in Buzzfeed.com’s article, “24 of the Most Delicious Pies in America”, Pie Junkie’s
Drunken Turtle pie reigns supreme. Order their Pumpkin Crumble with a maple bourbon
whip and sweet potato pies, and be on the lookout for their Orange Bourbon Pecan pie! They
consider themselves to be a Gluten-friendly bakery, and they can make truly gluten free pies
with 48 hours notice for customers with celiac disease.


2015 Marching Season Ends
CHS MARCHING BAND & WINTER GUARD TAKE HOME HIGH HONORS
The Pride of Choctaw High School Marching
Band finished the 2015 marching season with
a 2nd place award for class 6A2, 8th place
overall for calss 6A1 - 6A2 and they took home
the much-coveted High Visual award in class
6A2 by the Oklahoma Bandmasters Association. The State
Marching Band Championships were held on October 31st
in Edmond, Okla.
The 2015 Choctaw Winter Guard also cleaned up the competition.
The Choctaw Varsity earned semi-finalist honors
at the 2015 WGI World Championships. Similarly, the
Choctaw Junior Varsity knocked it out of the park and are
now the 2015 WGPO State Champions. Congratulations to
all for a strong finish for the 2015 marching season!
Written by Carmen Coffee

Blue
Christmas
GRIEF & THE HOLIDAYS
I am far from an expert in this realm. In fact,
everything I am about to share I can almost
guarantee was advice I picked up along the way,
as the journey through the grief process does
not exactly come naturally. I can say that getting
through the holidays without your loved ones is…
tough, to say the least. From being too far away on the
map to see them, to losing them to the inevitable, not
having the option to share this season with the ones
you love can be dang near unbearable. For me, this will
be the first holiday season without my mother. Only
time will tell how well I can actually brave the next
couple of months. However, I do have a pretty good
idea of what it will take to keep myself healthy and do
a little more than just go through the motions.
As this season continues to slowly creep up, I cannot
help but almost obsess over the fact that I will not
wake up on Christmas morning to a stocking filled
by “Santa” and seeing the satisfaction she got out of
spoiling me with awesome trinkets. I literally woke up
every single Christmas morning to date to her smile.
It is pretty wild that this tradition not only lost all of
its joy, but it has ended completely. An article I read
from my mother’s hospice team mentioned that there
is always a possibility to start a new tradition, a new
normal. My first thought was that they are crazy for
saying that I can simply replace this tradition with a
new one and be content with it. However, the more I
think about it, the more it makes sense. And the more
I get excited about what it is exactly that I am going to
do in her memory that she will absolutely love and be
proud of. The possibilities are endless.
My boss mentioned in passing that a good way to spin
a situation like this into something constructive and
fulfilling is to do something for someone else. It really
got me thinking… I need to do what she would want
me to do with my time. She would absolutely hate for
me to feel sorry for myself
and hide out for a couple of
months (which in all honesty,
seems ideal). Instead, I
am determined to funnel
my energy and emotions into
something that positively impacts
someone else, in turn, positively
impacting myself.
It will be awesome reaping the benefits of helping
others. However, it is definitely just as important
to help my own self… mentally, physically, and
emotionally. It is okay to feel bad, but it is also okay to
feel good, which is something that I have to give myself
constant reminders about. I have found that talking
about her and sharing the memories of our traditions
with those people in my life that love her like I do is
definitely one thing that makes me feel good. Another
thing that has kept me going this whole time, is
knowing that I am not alone. Everyone is fighting their
own battle. It is up to you to figure out how you will
conquer yours.
Erika Raschke is Director of ATI (all things important) at
High Five Media Group and is a living example that positivity
and vulnerability, along with time, can heal people.

Healing Choctaw
For some, the holiday season is the most wonderful time of year,
but for others it’s just a reminder of what they don’t have. One
organization is working to fix that in eastern Oklahoma county. In
this Q&A, we talk about who’s hurting, what’s being done about it
and why healing the whole person is what matters most.

IF A MAN IS HUNGRY HE DOESN’T WANT TO HEAR ABOUT
JESUS. IF A FAMILY DOESN’T THINK THE LOCAL CHURCH
CARES ABOUT THEIR STRUGGLES, THEN THEY DON’T WANT
TO KNOW WHAT YOU BELIEVE.
The Eastern Oklahoma County Resource Center
(EOCRC) was created for the same reason so
many non-profits exist: because local citizens
saw a need in the community that wasn’t being
met by government groups or other nonprofits.
Instead of only foccusing on one facet of a struggling
family, they focus on the whole person: physical, mental &
spiritual well being. It’s a coalition of churches, a group of
passionate people working to help their friends, neighbors
& congregations in ways that aren’t being done. Rick Sowell,
president of the Eastern Oklahoma County Resource Center
answered some questions for us about EOCRC and its work
in eastern Oklahoma county.
What Is EOCRC?
“It’s amazing how many children in Eastern Oklahoma
County go hungry each day and how many hard working
families in our community struggle to provide basic necessities.
In early 2014 a small group of people met to discuss
this huge need. As a result of that first meeting the Eastern
Oklahoma County Resource Center a 501(c)3 nonprofit
organization was created to address these issues.
The vision is to provide a true resource center for those
families in our community that are in greatest need where
they will not only be provided with food but with financial
counseling, assistance with employment needs, and access
to other resources in our area. Families would be referred
from area schools, churches and organizations.
Our mission is to minister to the physical, emotional and
spiritual needs of the hurting in Eastern Oklahoma County
by feeding the hungry and eliminating its causes, serving
the needy by providing resources and loving the lonely by
sharing Jesus.
Currently we are working with counselors and administration
from the Choctaw/Nicoma Park, Harrah and Jones
school districts to identify families in need. With their
help our first project was to host a Christmas reception and
party in early December that served over 60 area families
and more than 170 children. Families were provided food
for a healthy Christmas dinner, warm blankets, personal
items as well as gifts that parents chose for their children.
By partnering with community barbers and beauticians we
are currently planning to provide haircuts to children in the
same areas as the next school semester begins.
How long has it been an organization?
We began vision casting and organizing in early 2014.
What Groups are involved in the EOCRC?
Right now several churches are involved. We also have
support that has been expressed by community leaders and
businesses! We work closely with our local schools to make
sure the needs of our youth are met.
How did this start?
It started as a vision of Choctaw Road Baptist Church. We
wanted to make sure that the church was making a positive
impact on the community. If the church disappeared we
wanted the people to miss our impact in the community.
How can people help? Can they volunteer, donate, etc.?
What are the biggest needs, currently?
People can help by getting involved. You may contact Carol
Modisette at cmodiset@gmail.com or 405-919-5539. Once
we have your contact info we will notify you of each upcoming
meeting.

You may also donate food and toys for the Eastern Oklahoma
County Christmas Party on December 5th. Monetary
donations are always welcome and help us meet needs
throughout the year.
What are some projects that have happened in the
past?
Eastern Oklahoma County Christmas Party began last
year, [we provided]lice kits in local schools, hair cuts for
economically challenged students and food and clothing to
several families who lost their homes to fire.
How is the EOCRC funded?
By donations!
Any stories you’d like to share that people should know
about?
This is taken from our Facebook page:
“I was a privileged recipient of the blessings poured out
on us that day. To be greeted so comfortably and warmly
by REAL people, to have fun things for kids to do,
to have a beautiful family portrait made, and food and
clothes. Especially to be allowed to SELECT the gifts
for me to have the privilege of something to give to my
3 step grandchildren was such a blessing to me as well.
While struggling to keep the bills paid and the privilege
to spend every spare minute attempting to repair these
3 precious children of God’s lives after parents who
didn’t make good choices to stay drug free and work
to provide a loving home for their little brood—every
little bit of assistance matters. We would not have had
Christmas gifts without this program! But we would
always have Christmas as my 3 step grandkids know the
true meaning of Christmas as they know that they have
CHRIST in their hearts. Please continue praying for
us auntie journey of life, as always STRONG PRAYER
WARRIORS are always needed, daily. Thank you ALL
so very much for all you do blessing the least of these in
Jesus name.”
Also, last year at the Eastern Oklahoma County Christmas
Party we hired a live band to play. Many of the families
told us that this was the first time their children had ever
heard a live band. There were many tears and hugs shared
that day between volunteers and families that were helped.
LifeTouch Photographers sent Craig Davis out with a crew

and provided FREE Christmas portraits for every family
that attended the event. People could not believe there was
such generosity. LifeTouch was so impressed they plan to
be part of the event again this year.
What are the future hopes & plans for the EOCRC?
The EOCRC would love to have a facility in Eastern Oklahoma
County from which to operate on a daily basis. The
Regional Food Bank of Oklahoma is looking to partner with
the EOCRC, but we need to raise substantial funds for that
work to begin.
This appears to be a faith-driven organization. How has
your faith (or others’ faith) inspired and influenced the
EOCRC & its mission?
This began as a conviction that our faith needs to be visible
in our community. If the church closed its doors, would
anyone care other than those who attend the church? That
was the question that sparked us to begin investigating how
to make a difference in the lives of people. We met with
leadership at The Master’s Market and looked at their model.
We were going to begin with a food trailer and distribute
food to local communities on set days. In a meeting with
Tom Jones, President of the City Rescue Mission, we were
encouraged to dream bigger, to see what God would do.
The mission of the church is first and foremost to introduce
people to Jesus. But if a man is hungry he doesn’t want to
hear about Jesus. If a family doesn’t think the local church
cares about their struggles, then they don’t want to know
what you believe. So we meet needs both physical and
spiritual.”
The EOCRC is busy working toward its second annual
Christmas party and is always looking for individuals and
families to donate, volunteer and get inolved in building a
network of hope and support throughout eastern Oklahoma
County. To learn more, donate or contact, visit thier website
at www.eocrc.org.
Written by Meg McElhaney
Photos provided by EOCRC





Sooners Helping Sooners
CHANGING LIVES OFF OF THE FIELD
Of the 1,093,234 high school football players
that gleam under the Friday night lights,
only 6.5 percent will play in college. Of the
college stars that we cheer on at bowl games,
bedlam, and national championship victories
approximately 1.6 percent of those young men will make
it to the ultimate level – the
NFL. Lets say you are from
the University of Oklahoma
(OU) and have made it to
being a professional football
player. You’re living a dream,
achieved by very few, and in
a career that spans an average
of three – five years, if you
are lucky. Taxes, agent fees,
and the procurement of eye
popping luxury items will all
be tied to that “big contract”
and when the pro career is
over, then what?
That’s where Sooners Helping
Sooners, Inc. comes in.
Founded by University of
Oklahoma icon J.D. “Jakie”
Sandefer III, this nonprofit
stands with the mission
to positively impact the
lives of former University
of Oklahoma studentathletes
and their families
by providing opportunities
for personal development,
education and rewarding
career paths. The organization was formalized in 2014 and
is currently headed by the winning combination of Sooner
legends Jerry Pettibone and Jay O’Neal. Despite its strong
football ties, Sooners Helping Sooners, Inc is committed to
assisting all former student athletes, and is inclusive of all
sports and genders.
Two-time National Championship winner, and former
University of Oklahoma coach, Jay O’Neal, at one point in
time also headed the summer job program for OU student
athletes. During that time students were able to garner
summer internships and gain real world experience in their
chosen field of study. Given today’s fierce competition this is
no longer a viable option. Student athletes spend the majority
of their summers away from
their families in intense
University sponsored summer
workouts. So regardless if an
individual athlete elects to go
pro or finishes their 4-year
degree program, their resumes
read the same – no corporate
experience.
“They’re walk ons to the job
market”, O’Neal said, “raw
talent”. This is a place that may
be familiar to many athletes
on the field or court, however,
after earning a college degree,
this in no way can be anyone’s
desired endgame. Sooners
Helping Sooners, Inc assists
these former college student
athletes by transforming what
they have learned from playing
sports: hard work, applying
oneself, and work ethic, into
success in the job world. By
no means is this process a
mere handout. Former student
athletes compete, like all new
graduates, for entry level jobs,
but instead of having a resume full of internships, industry
experience and references, they have Sooners Helping
Sooners, Inc. as their advocates.
“In the beginning we called up our own resources,” recalls
Jay O’Neal. Many times if they had an outstanding candidate,
they would call upon a friend, and ask “businesses to give
people a try”. Now this was never a guarantee of a job, just an

opportunity to be seen, and given a chance – former athletes
still had to prove themselves in the interview.
From these humble beginnings, our state has benefited
greatly. Sooners Helping Sooners Inc has introduced the oil
and gas, service corporations, pharmaceuticals sales, truck
driving, insurance, banking, and other industries within our
state to an often overlooked, vastly capable group of young
people eager to get into the work force. For Jay O’Neal it’s
more than just helping someone get a job. “Many of them
have families they need to provide for and we help them do
that” explains O’Neal. For this passionate group, it’s about
building a legacy for student athletes at Oklahoma’s largest
university. Former OU tight end, Bubba Moses is part of that
legacy.
Moses was part of OU’s conference championship teams
from 2002 TO 2006 and participated in four Bowl Games
(Rose, Sugar, Orange and Holiday). In 2006 he graduated
from OU with a degree in criminal justice and returned
to his hometown of Houston, TX to work in a juvenile
detention center. “Playing at the University of Oklahoma,
everybody puts you on a pedestal and doesn’t prepare you for
the next [step]”, explains Moses. He also reflects back on his
college years and adds, “Personally, I didn’t take advantage of
the resources that the University of Oklahoma had to offer
because playing football [at OU] is the top thing on your list,
ya know.” For Bubba, a superior athlete that never made it to
the NFL, the reality check came quick. He rationalizes, “As
the years go on, while you’re in school, when you don’t see it
playing out how you want it to play out, then it’s like you’re
stuck in the mud. Then you say, ‘What will I do?’” A few years
ago, Moses met Jakie and his luck began to change. “They put
you in a position to succeed, to be successful” he continues
“They opened up numerous doors for me that would’ve
never opened without Sooners Helping Sooners, and it just
continues to grow.” Today, Moses and his family reside in
Fresno, TX, where he works in oil and gas, due in large part
to his experience with Sooners Helping Sooners, Inc. “They
are a wonderful organization. They are part of my family, and
my wife loves them and I do too as well,” concludes Moses.
For those in need of job placement services, an application
for Sooners Helping Sooners, Inc, is a simple click away,
when you access soonershelpingsooners.com. In addition to
employment, Sooners Helping Sooners, Inc points former
pros in need of financial planners, in the right direction.
Career center sessions are also offered to aid job seekers to

build on their speaking abilities and professional personal
appearance. This model for identifying and preparing young
people to achieve personal aspirations and career goals is
brought to fruition through an ever-growing number of
partnerships, in a diverse myriad of job fields. This particular
vision for empowering
former college
student athletes is
made possible by the
support of businesses
and individual
c o n t r i b u t i o n s ,
nationwide as well
as one very special
fundraiser – the Barry
Switzer Classic.
Held at the Belmar Golf
Club, the Barry Switzer
Classic boasts 18 holes
of Oklahoma’s best golf
in celebration of Coach
Switzer’s birthday and
in support of Sooners
Helping Sooners, Inc. Entrants can register as individuals or
on the higher end of the sponsorship spectrum. For a few
hundred ultimate OU fans, this is an event provides up close
and personal access to OU supporters like Oklahoma’s own
Toby Keith and former Sooner players and coaches. The
all day affair features awards, dinner, and an auction with
this bottom line – the majority of all proceeds go to benefit
future former college student athletes involved with Sooners
Helping Sooners.
Sooners Helping
Sooners, Inc. is
constantly looking to
grow their network and
welcomes support from
individuals and area
businesses. For more
information on Sooners
Helping Sooners, Inc.
you can visit their
website, get connected
on their app, or simply
keep it interactive on
social media. In this
season of thanks, I’m
sure we all are grateful
for at least one chance
someone gave us to
better ourselves, in life, and nothing feels better than giving
back.
Written by Carmen Coffee





































